When Timothy started playing football, I had no idea how the other players and coaches would react to him. I had concerns that he would not be accepted by his teammates and that his coaches would easily become frustrated with his lack of experience combined with his autism issues. 
I never imagined I would see the understanding, acceptance, and kindness that I have seen from these boys and coaches. They have all taken Timothy under their wings, and because of that, he is learning to fly. When he gets knocked down or gets hurt, one of his teammates is always there to help him. His teammates spend time with him on the sidelines giving him a little extra instruction. His coaches work extra hard with him making sure he understands exactly what he needs to do and how to do it.
Because of their acceptance, he has persevered and given it 100% at every game and every practice. He never gives up. One of the most touching things his teammates do is something that I can't photograph. It happens at the end of practice when it's dark. 
He is a much slower runner than his teammates. When they rush "gashers", he always ends up being a lap behind. Every night, the rest of the team is finished before him, but rather than catching their breath, they all voluntarily choose to run one more lap alongside Timothy just so they can cheer him on. I've seen it probably 7 or 8 times now, and it still brings me to tears every time.
Timothy's life will forever be changed from this experience. He has found a place where he is accepted, and he is thriving beyond our wildest expectations. Thank you Van Reed JV Midget Bulldogs!!!
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